LGBTQ Inclusive Easter & Passover Seder Services In Grand Rapids!

"And the stone rolled away" 

If you are looking for an LGBTQ Inclusive Easter Service, check out one (or more ) of these services!

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Reconciliation Metropolitan Community Church

3864 Benjamin Ave NE, Grand Rapids, Michigan 49525

  • 7:30 AM Prayer Service
  • 8:15 AM Potluck Breakfast
  • 10:00 AM Worship and Celebration

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All Souls Community Church of West Michigan

2727 Michigan St NE, Grand Rapids, MI 49506

April 1, 2018 – It Is A New Day! Let Us Rejoice! Today Easter will be celebrated in various churches across the world. My sermon is based on a conversation with a dear friend and born-again Christian, she said the promise of Jesus is that with each new morning comes as a New Day in the Lord. It is the hope found in new beginnings and with each daybreak, we begin again, to start over and try once more; where “Everything is Possible.” We will also have a special celebration; a Naming Ceremony for one of our young people. Come Celebrate with Us! Rev. Colleen Squires

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Plymouth United Church of Christ

4010 Kalamazoo Ave SE, Grand Rapids, MI 49508

A mix of ages, sexual orientations, gender identities, ethnicities, social backgrounds, and economic status, Plymouth embraces a tradition of progressive involvement in issues that uphold the rights, dignity, and equality of all people under God. 

Easter morning service is at 10:00 a.m.

Come for a visit! We're doing really good stuff!

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Aldersgate United Methodist Church


4301 Ambrose Avenue NE (49525)
Easter service is at 9:30 AM
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Trinity United Methodist Church

1100 Lake Dr SE, Grand Rapids MI, 49506

  • Good Friday Service: March 30 at 6:30pm
  • Lenten Breakfast: Saturday, March 31 at 9:30am
  • Easter Sunday Worship: 9am Casual & 11:15am Traditional

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Two Churches (Holy Cross Episcopal and Ascension Lutheran)

4252 Breton Rd. SE , Kentwood, MI 49512

  • Good Friday (no Holy Communion) noon (no music)7:PM (with music)
  • The Great Vigil (Holy Saturday)8:PM (with music) Lighting The New Fire, the return of Alleluia, and Holy Communion)
  • Easter Morning (with music and Holy Communion) 10:AM

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First (Park) Congregational Church. UCC

10 E Park Place NE, Grand Rapids, MI 49503

  • Good Friday 3/30 at 7:00
  • Easter Sunday 4/01 at 10:30.

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East Congregational UCC

 1005  Giddings SE, 49506    

  • Good Friday: 7:00PM  Shared service with  Eastminster Presbyterian Church and St. John’s UCC
  • Easter Sunday: 8:30-9:30AM Breakfast                                                                              10:30AM Resurrection Worship   

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Westminster Presbyterian Church

47 Jefferson Ave SE (downtown just south of Fulton and Jefferson), Grand Rapids, MI 49503

  • Services at 8:30 and 11 a.m.
  • Breakfast open to absolutely everyone at 9:40 a.m.

Parking in our lot, the Spectrum lot to our west, and on the street. Additional seating (flower/allergen-free!) is available in our chapel and atrium if you find the sanctuary too crowded.

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St John's United Church of Christ

1934 Bridge St NW, Grand Rapids, MI 49504

  • Easter Sunday worship service 10:00 a.m

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IUC Ministerios Rios de Agua Joy Like a River UCC

1841 Havana Ave. SW, Wyoming, Michigan 49509-1363

Amigas y Amigos (Friends), Channel 13 is going to film at our Easter Service this Sunday, 4/1 @ 2 p.m.. We're a small group so we could use some additional supporters among us. Please join us for our Easter Service & Community Dinner immediately afterward. They will also be looking to talk to a few people why they think "Sanctuary for All of God's Creation" is important in our community. I've set up an event. We are an Immigrant Welcoming, Open & Affirming, Sanctuary Church. Our services are bilingual and so is our bulletin. Please join us. No one will be on camera that does not want to be. Share the post, invite friends and bring your familias. Come check us out and let's send a strong message that our village supports our global sisters and brothers.

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Trinity Reformed Church

1224 Davis Ave NW, Grand Rapids, MI 49504

  • Easter Sunday Worship 10:00 am

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Temple Emanuel

1715 Fulton St SE, Grand Rapids, Mi 49503

There will be a Passover Seder for the LGBTQ community and their allies on Thursday, April 5th at 6:30 PM. This Seder blends elements of the traditional Passover Seder with modern sensibilities and themes of LGBT liberation. All are welcome and there is no charge. This is a pot-luck event, please either bring a dish to pass (meat, no dairy, no bread or flour) or a donation to offset the purchase of food and wine. RSVP to the Temple Office by April 1st and let us know what you will be bringing.

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Grand Rapids Pride Center Announces New Executive Director

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Hi!

Let me start out by saying how honored I am to be taking on the Executive Director role at the Grand Rapids Pride Center (GRPC). Approaching its 30th birthday in 2018, I am extremely excited to be joining an organization that has for so long empowered and offered support and resources to the Grand Rapids LGBTQ+ community.

A Bit About Me

I am originally from North Carolina and moved to Michigan in 2012 to attend grad school at Grand Valley State University. For the last 5 years, I have worked at Hope Network in Grand Rapids as the Director of Children’s Residential Services.

My time at Hope has taught me that my true passion lies in advocacy and empowering underrepresented and vulnerable populations; this is what I’m looking forward to bringing to the GRPC.

My Vision for the Grand Rapids Pride Center

These are exciting times for the GRPC and I believe we are poised to grow significantly in the next 3-5 years as we begin to form new partnerships and expand our services being offered. I’m looking forward to getting the internal operations working smoothly and effectively, and building upon the great work that our staff and volunteers have already been doing!

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Long term, my goals for the GRPC include...

  • Strategic placement of the GRPC to better align with the unique needs of our community.

  • Continued advocacy and support through services offered.

  • Engagement with community initiatives and projects that will work to further support our Grand Rapids LGBTQ community.

  • Increased partnerships with communities beyond our own.


 

Grand Rapids and Beyond

On a local level, we will continue to be that safe space in the community for those who need it while also exploring how we can take a larger role in advocacy, policy development, and education.

Looking beyond our local community, the GRPC will utilize partnerships and resources it already has to ensure we are doing our part in creating safe spaces across our state; this includes community coalitions, data collection, and training and education.

Getting Started

I am so excited to be joining an organization that works so hard every day to create a community that is accepting, educated, and safe.

I look forward to getting started, and I welcome anyone to stop by and visit!
 

Thomas Pierce, LLMSW, MPA                                                                     
Executive Director                                                                                       
Grand Rapids Pride Center                                                                                            

Five Ways Smoking Hurts LGBTQ People

Big Tobacco companies know that marginalized groups are more likely to smoke, so they target LGBTQ people with advertisements for cigarettes. Additionally, smoking is even more dangerous to those living with HIV, as it can weaken the immune system and worsen HIV related health complications. 

Here are five facts about how smoking affects the LGBTQ Community and some helpful resources. All information was taken from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. For more information, visit their website.

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1. Nearly 1 in 4 LGB people smoke cigarettes, whereas 1 in 6 straight people smoke. 

 

2. The Transgender Community is at a high risk of smoking due to the higher rates of HIV, substance abuse and depression associated with the stress of daily discrimination. 

 

3. Over 30,000 LGBTQ people die each year of cigarette related illnesses.

 

4. Cigarettes can affect the health and appearance of your skin, teeth, nails and mouth. 

 

5. LGBTQ people are less likely to be aware of smoking quitlines and less likely to receive the help they need to quit smoking. 


For help quitting contact the MDHHS quitline:

1-800-QUIT-NOW (784-8669)

 

If you have HIV and need help quitting, contact Fonda Kingsley of the Red Project:

(616) 456-9063

fonda@redproject.org

 

If you have any additional questions, please reach out to us at the Grand Rapids Pride Center:

(616) 458-3511

http://www.grpride.org/quit/

Charity and Sylvia: A Story for Women’s History Month

by Annaka Koster

Weybridge Hill Cemetery is a triangular lot of grass and weeds wedged between two country roads in the middle of western Vermont. A couple lies buried there under a single, unassuming headstone. Its raised letters, embossed at the extra expense of the interreds’ relatives, spell out all the usual details included on a 19th-century gravestone: the names of the dead, their dates of death, the ages at which they died, and even the names of their fathers. The two died seventeen years apart--the first in 1851 and the second in 1868--but spent the majority of their adult lives living and working under the same roof. Their names were Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake, and they had been, in their own understanding and the understanding of their community, married since 1807.

  Rachel Cleves’ 2014 book seeks to shed light on the lives of these two New England women.

Rachel Cleves’ 2014 book seeks to shed light on the lives of these two New England women.

Charity Bryant was born in North Bridgewater, Massachusetts, in the midst of the American Revolution. Throughout her early years, the Bryant family felt the war’s financial burdens as well as its physical ones. Their youngest daughter, Charity was an intelligent woman and disinterested in traditional marriage, remaining single well into her twenties. That aversion to marriage, as well as her proclivity towards intimate friendships with other women, caused her to be dogged by gossip and accusations against her character. She moved constantly and quickly left areas as soon as the rumors grew too much to bear. It wasn’t until 1807 that she finally ended up in Weybridge, Vermont, where she would spend the rest of her life. Well-educated and an excellent seamstress, Charity brought class and much-needed skills to the frontier town, but it wasn’t financial or social opportunities that convinced her to stay.

Sylvia Drake was born in 1784 to a poor but healthy family in Massachusetts. While the Revolutionary War and its aftermath took a financial toll on the Drake family, all of its members survived the conflict. Like Charity, Sylvia spent her early years indifferent towards traditional marriage. As women were outnumbered in frontier towns, there were plenty of prospects for Sylvia, but she seemed contentedly averse to marriage, a condition her family eventually accepted. Sylvia, it seemed, was destined to remain single. That was, of course, before Charity Bryant came to town.

In 1807, Sylvia “consented to be my help-meet and came to be my companion,” Charity wrote in 1844. It might seem like a simple sentence to our twenty-first century ears, but it implied so much more. For much of human history, mutual “consent” was all that was needed to cement a marriage. Even more telling than that word is the presence of the phrase “help-meet,” a common early American synonym for “wife.” Charity and Sylvia shared a home, a business, and were respected members of their small community, a community that recognized them as a couple. In his memoirs, a local community member would write, “Miss Bryant and Miss Drake were married to each other.”

“The past is a foreign country,” novelist L.P. Hartley wrote in 1953. “They do things differently there.” It’s one of the first things budding historians--professional and amateur alike--need to learn. We love to draw lessons and morals from the past; it’s one of the main justifications many use for the importance of history instruction in schools. History repeats itself, or so we like to say. Whether it does or not, the past is a foreign country, even when that past takes place in our own nation. What was and worked in the past cannot be universally applied to our lives today. Charity and Sylvia’s story is important, but we need to be careful how we apply any “lessons” from their story to our modern world.

So what can we learn from these two frontier women? Charity and Sylvia’s story is only now coming to light because of a 2014 book by historian and University of Victoria professor Rachel Cleves. As some have noted, Cleves’s book is a lot like early works of feminist history; it’s more reclamation than interpretation. Charity was especially cautious when it came to her personal documents, probably a holdover from the unspoken accusations she experienced as a young woman. It’s only through some impressive historical Sherlocking that we have their stories at all.

  Charity and Sylvia’s headstone in Weybridge Hill Cemetery, Weybridge, Massachusetts.

Charity and Sylvia’s headstone in Weybridge Hill Cemetery, Weybridge, Massachusetts.

In a 2014 interview with The Boston Globe, Cleves gives two important implications that Charity and Sylvia’s relationship has for the modern LGBT community specifically and for modern people in general. First, it’s an important counterpoint to the notion that gay marriage is a radically new idea in the modern Western world. While stories like Charity and Sylvia’s were uncommon, they did exist. In other words, LGBT people and same-sex marriages existed in the past. It’s an obvious point to make, but one that is nevertheless important and often forgotten.

Second, Charity and Sylvia’s relationship showcases the importance of continuing the struggle for equal rights. The two were able to make a life for themselves in Weybridge; they were even recognized as being married by the members of their community. Their marriage, however, was not a legal one. It was a fragile arrangement that was entirely dependant on the good opinion of their neighbors. They were able to maintain their relationship only through conscientious effort and constant community service. Without legal protections, any turn of bad luck could destroy their reputations--and their union--forever.

The legalization of same-sex marriage in 2015 was obviously an enormous step for the LGBT community, but it’s also not the end of the fight. Perhaps the last thing we can take from Charity and Sylvia’s story, then, is the importance of remembering. People are important. Ordinary people are important. It’s not just the Oscar Wildes and the Virginia Woolfes that deserve remembrance; it’s the ordinary LGBT people who lived and worked and struggled throughout history, people like Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake.

 

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Annaka Koster is currently a student at Calvin College, where she studies the dead things and books. She also likes video games, board games, sushi, bragging about her semester abroad at Oxford University, writing things, reading things, and talking about herself in the third person. On alternative days, she is obsessed with/hates puns.


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26 LGBTQ People to Know for Black History Month

Today more than ever, it is important that we celebrate the acomplishments made by the LGBTQ Black and African American community. It is past time for us to awkwnowledge these civil rights activists, pioneers, and outspoken leaders, so that they are no longer left out of our shared history. Their contributions and sacrifices have led us to where we are today.

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New and Interesting Titles at your Public Library Surprise! It’s the Grand Rapids Public Library

The Grand Rapids Public Library is thrilled to be doing a series of guest posts for the GR Pride Center! Once a month, Library staff will be sharing their recommendations of new and interesting LGBTQ materials. We love talking about books, movies, how to get that streaming music onto your phone or tablet, what the best diverse graphic novel is of the month and so much more! Some of the titles we recommend may also be available through the Pride Center’s Library collection. Check it out by visiting or going to their Learning Center .

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What advice would you give to trans and non-binary youth?

March 31st is Transgender Day of Visibility. To Celebrate the annual holiday, Grand Rapids Pride Center asked some of our Out and Proud Transgender community members, "What advice would you give to trans and non-binary youth?"


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Be true to yourself first and foremost. Sometimes it can be very difficult to be true to yourself, but in the end, I promise, it's worth it.

Second, just as people come in all shapes, sizes, and colors, so does identity. Never let anyone tell you how to look, how to dress, or how to be you. There is no such thing as not being trans enough.

And finally, reach out. There are so many of us in the community - trans, non-binary, even cisgender individuals - who want to help, who are willing to help, and who want to see you succeed. We're here, come talk to us.


Ash-

I recommend seeking out blog posts, articles, and videos by other trans/non-binary people to experience that representation. Representation for folks like us is incredibly important since our identities and experiences are so often invalidated as confusion or a phase. I'd also encourage you to document your experiences, whether you choose to share them or keep them to yourself. Your journey is important. 

I'd also like to take a moment to point out some really, really important things that I wish someone had told me when I was trying to figure things out for myself. Your presentation does not invalidate your identity. Your interest or lack of interest in medical transition does not invalidate your identity. Don't worry about fitting anyone's idea of how you should look, act, or feel. Focus on being comfortable in your own skin and on loving your body and how it works. You know who you are, or if you don't, you'll figure it out. Don't let anybody's interpretation of who you are define you or drag you down. You are valid.


Ellie-

Never be ashamed of who you are! You are beautiful, and capable of anything you put your mind to. Never let anyone bring you down because you do not fit their idea of who you should be. Be you! Love you!


Lex-

You are real, you are valid, and your instincts are more important than anyone else's opinion. Let yourself be yourself, and know that most people are not going to understand or know what to do, but your love for yourself is the most beautiful and important thing. You will find community. We are out there. I am here, and I do not even have to know you to love you. I believe you, and I trust your intuition. We all need you to be you. Thank you for being you.


Davison-

Trans youth already know that it's going to be hard. The world isn't ready for us, and most people can't or won't understand us. You may very well not get the acceptance and support that you want and deserve from everyone you love. It's sad and unfair, but it's probably true. Be yourself anyway. Through struggle, through adversity, through heartbreak - be yourself anyway. There is no other choice. I've seen too many late aged adults who say they regret never being honest, never allowing themselves to truly live. Don't waste your life. Don't waste another second. There are people who believe in us and will support us. Find them, and above all else find yourself. Be brave.


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Mitch-
I don't know if it's advice or not...try to find ways to show yourself love, self care is important. If your family of origin isn't supportive, look for support from others. embrace the fact that you are a wonderful, glittery unicorn and you don't have to fit into someone else's mold or expectations.


Jason-
You know yourself better than anyone. It is your body, your transition, your life. Do it your way.

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Become very comfortable and proud of yourself. It takes a pretty big amount of courage to be who YOU are, take self defense classes, also...go buy some good headphones. They help you drown out the idiots


What advice would you give to trans and non-binary youth?

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Life of a Woman: Historical Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Women

To celebrate Women's History Month, a list has been compiled of some of history's most influential women who identified as lesbian, bisexual, or transgender.  These women were incredibly brave and were highly successful and respected for their individual work.  Unfortunately, many of these women were unable to be completely out in their identity due to the time in which they lived.  All the listed women are icons in women's history, as well as members of the LGBT community.  These women should be recognized for their accomplishments, and many for their activist work, that has helped to shape the world we live in today. 

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Space for Us By Us

Why do we need this space? Why does the Trans* (nonbinary, agender, genderqueer, genderfluid, gender nonconforming, transgender) community need a space held solely for them? Why does the Queer (queer, asexual, pansexual, bisexual, lesbian, gay) community need a space held for, made up of, and taught by them? The simple answer is, there isn’t space for us already. There aren’t yoga classes for or inclusive to trans and queer folks in our area already, so I made them.

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